You could have at least cleaned up my typos before you posted that.
But, yes, overall the EU pays scant regard to democracy (this is the second time they've told the Irish to vote again after they got the answer "wrong"). The European Parliament is at least democractic, although it uses a rather iffy system, but the Parliament has very little power - it's the beaurocrats who run the place, either appointed by national governments or promoted from within the Brussels-Strasbourg system.
As to the comparision to the US, it doesn't hold water. The US had from the begining a common history and a common culture, since all the original thirteen states were British colonies. The only common history the members of the EU have is one of beating the crap out of each other - us and the French in particular have been at loggerheads for the best part of a millenia. The culture, economic systems, history, and legal systems of the various members are all completely different.