It feels so weird to say "my friend from high school" when it's only been three months. Part of me wonders what the hell happened during those months.Sionnach Glic wrote:Damn. My sympathies.Sonic Glitch wrote:Does it involve a street corner?stitch626 wrote:I finally figured out (I think) how to pay for my last bit of college. So now that thats out of the way, I can rest my mind.
I just found out one of my friends from High School killed himself yesterday. We were closer friends in elementary/middle school when we were both in Scouts but I was always on friendly terms with him. I guess it really is the quiet ones....
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"All this has happened before --"
"But it doesn't have to happen again. Not if we make up our minds to change. Take a different path. Right here, right now."
"But it doesn't have to happen again. Not if we make up our minds to change. Take a different path. Right here, right now."
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Fuck....my condolences.
I've become desensitized to suicide or suicidal feelings, the clique I most conform to stereotypically uses self harm as a method of expressing emotional pressure. The chavs use beating people up, we use beating ourselves up. A stupidly high proportion of my friends have self harmed, and 2 have come so close to suicide its stupid. I'm used to it now.
I've become desensitized to suicide or suicidal feelings, the clique I most conform to stereotypically uses self harm as a method of expressing emotional pressure. The chavs use beating people up, we use beating ourselves up. A stupidly high proportion of my friends have self harmed, and 2 have come so close to suicide its stupid. I'm used to it now.
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That's terrible. (That it's come to that I mean)Reliant121 wrote:f**k....my condolences.
I've become desensitized to suicide or suicidal feelings, the clique I most conform to stereotypically uses self harm as a method of expressing emotional pressure. The chavs use beating people up, we use beating ourselves up. A stupidly high proportion of my friends have self harmed, and 2 have come so close to suicide its stupid. I'm used to it now.
"All this has happened before --"
"But it doesn't have to happen again. Not if we make up our minds to change. Take a different path. Right here, right now."
"But it doesn't have to happen again. Not if we make up our minds to change. Take a different path. Right here, right now."
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I agree entirely. I shouldn't be unfased by it, It shouldnt be something I take in my stride. Yet it is.
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You know, one of my most shameful moments is when I found out that a guy I went to high school with shot himself. Don't mistake, we were NOT friends. I was never a fighter, he was. He used to sucker punch me or cheap shot me from behind more than once. Usually while I was talking to the girls (which WAS my thing in high school
). Everytime I stood up to him, I caught a beat down. I just couldn't take him.
I was actually glad when I heard he pulled that trigger. I still feel guilty about that.

I was actually glad when I heard he pulled that trigger. I still feel guilty about that.
They say that in the Army,
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They look like Phyllis Diller,
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They look like Phyllis Diller,
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You know how I feel about that EMO crap. You shouldn't punish your self so early. Life will do that after you begin actually living it on your terms. Not school politics, or living under your parents roof. Reliant, you know I'm notReliant121 wrote:I agree entirely. I shouldn't be "unfazed" by it, It "shouldn't" be something I take in my stride. Yet it is.

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I felt the same way about my ex-stepfather. I felt guilty that I didn't feel more than vague relief.Mark wrote:You know, one of my most shameful moments is when I found out that a guy I went to high school with shot himself. Don't mistake, we were NOT friends. I was never a fighter, he was. He used to sucker punch me or cheap shot me from behind more than once. Usually while I was talking to the girls (which WAS my thing in high school). Everytime I stood up to him, I caught a beat down. I just couldn't take him.
I was actually glad when I heard he pulled that trigger. I still feel guilty about that.
Sonic, my condolences.
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Thanks. I had a similar moment w/ the senior class two years ahead of me (i was a sophomore IIRC) when we found out that one of their class members had killed themselves (later we found out it was accidental involving a High and a window curtain cord... idk). I didn't know her and felt vaguely guilty that I didn't feel that bad. I mean I was sorry she died (especially) that way, but I didn't feel much more.RK_Striker_JK_5 wrote:I felt the same way about my ex-stepfather. I felt guilty that I didn't feel more than vague relief.Mark wrote:You know, one of my most shameful moments is when I found out that a guy I went to high school with shot himself. Don't mistake, we were NOT friends. I was never a fighter, he was. He used to sucker punch me or cheap shot me from behind more than once. Usually while I was talking to the girls (which WAS my thing in high school). Everytime I stood up to him, I caught a beat down. I just couldn't take him.
I was actually glad when I heard he pulled that trigger. I still feel guilty about that.
Sonic, my condolences.
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"But it doesn't have to happen again. Not if we make up our minds to change. Take a different path. Right here, right now."
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I found a service on Twitter that notifies you when the ISS is over your location at night and you can (weather permitting) see it passing overhead. How cool is that? 

Hi, Ben Miller!
ISS will be visible passing at your location -weather permitting- on
September 11, 2009, 19:49:00 BST
Is it a good one?
This time, the International Space Station will be flying over at 25 degrees. Its magnitude will be -2.1: extremely bright!
Where to look?
ISS will come up at the horizon from south-southwest.
Your location
Your Twitter bio says you are here: "51.614353,0.644331", which Twisst thinks is at these coordinates: 51.614353, 0.644331. More info: Twisst and locations.
Coming up
The next pass of ISS after this one: September 11, 2009, 21:23:32 BST
“To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and
the affection of children...to leave the world a better place...to
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the affection of children...to leave the world a better place...to
know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is
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Oh noooo. there's a twitterer among us.
No dude that's pretty cool.

No dude that's pretty cool.
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I thoroughly enjoy a good Twitter when the wife's gone to bed.
How the hell do I work out where south-southwest is without a compass? What's that trick with a bucket of water, a cork and a needle?!?!?
How the hell do I work out where south-southwest is without a compass? What's that trick with a bucket of water, a cork and a needle?!?!?
“To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and
the affection of children...to leave the world a better place...to
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the affection of children...to leave the world a better place...to
know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is
to have succeeded.”
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I know I'm gonna get mocked...
What's 'twitter'? I know it's a website, not that out of it.
What's 'twitter'? I know it's a website, not that out of it.

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It's sort of a social networking site revolving around SMS style micro-blogging updates. And Brent Spiner, William Shatner, LeVar Burton and Wil Wheaton are on there too! 

“To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and
the affection of children...to leave the world a better place...to
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the affection of children...to leave the world a better place...to
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Ah, I see. Thanks, Harry.
I feel slightly smarter now. 


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Magnetize the needle, place it on the cork in a bucket of water and it will indicate which way is north.thelordharry wrote:I thoroughly enjoy a good Twitter when the wife's gone to bed.
How the hell do I work out where south-southwest is without a compass? What's that trick with a bucket of water, a cork and a needle?!?!?