San Diego's Mayor To Support Same Sex Marriage

Aaron · Post by **Aaron** » Thu Sep 20, 2007 9:52 pm

Mayor Jerry Sanders reversed his position on gay marriage Wednesday, supporting it in emotional remarks punctuated by pauses, shaking sips of water and his wife's hand resting one time reassuringly on his back.

Sanders' wife, Rana Sampson, stood next to him as he acknowledged publicly for the first time that his daughter, Lisa, is a lesbian.

"I've decided to lead with my heart, which is probably obvious right now, to do what I think is right and to take a stand on behalf of equality and social justice," Sanders said.

A day after staff members said Sanders would veto it, the mayor announced that he would sign a City Council resolution passed Tuesday that directed the City Attorney's Office to file a brief in support of gay marriage.

The council voted 5-3 to send the brief to the state Supreme Court backing an end to the state's ban on same-sex marriage. Similar briefs have been sent by other cities, which like San Diego, are not directly involved in the case.

Almost 200 people attended the council hearing on the issue, with gay marriage supporters arguing for equal treatment under the law, and opponents contending marriage should be between a man and a woman.

"As I reflected on the choices that I had before me last night I could just not bring myself to tell an entire group of people in our community they were less important, less worthy or less deserving of the rights and responsibilities of marriage than anyone else simply because of their sexual orientation," Sanders said.

In a reference to his daughter and two staff members who are gay, he said, "I want for them the same thing that we all want for our loved ones, for each of them to find a mate whom they love deeply and loves them back, someone with whom they can grow old together and share life's experiences, and I want their relationships to be protected equally under the law."

In his 2005 mayoral campaign, Sanders said he supported civil unions and domestic partnerships but not gay marriage.

"I have personally wrestled with that opinion ever since," he said Wednesday his voice wavering. "My opinions on this issue have evolved significantly as I think the opinions of millions of Americans from all walks of life have."

In a nod to those who don't support gay marriage, he said, "I acknowledge that not all members of our community will agree or even understand."

I hear tell that he's a Republican too. So that's a major step in the right direction.

Sionnach Glic · Post by **Sionnach Glic** » Thu Sep 20, 2007 10:03 pm

Great.
Maybe now he'll realise that homosexual people aren't evil.

Aaron · Post by **Aaron** » Thu Sep 20, 2007 11:02 pm

I bet he's had some great dinner time convo's with his daughter:

"So honey I undestand your one of those filthy queers?"

"Yes Dad"

"You realise your going to burn in eternal hell fire for this and your embarrassing your mother and me in front of the community and the church right? Right?"

"I hate you Dad!"

Rinse and repeat for every Republican and fundie family in America with a gay member.

Post by **Mikey** » Thu Sep 20, 2007 11:13 pm

At least he'll have something to talk about over drinks with Dick Cheney...

Hey! How great would it be if his daughter and Cheney's daughter started dating?

Granitehewer · Post by **Granitehewer** » Thu Sep 20, 2007 11:45 pm

there are alot of dicks, in american politics, dick cheney, dick army......endless

Post by **Mikey** » Fri Sep 21, 2007 2:38 am

I think its a prerequisite for entering politics in the US.

As I have said many times: the surest way to tell that someone doesn't deserve to be in political office, is by the fact that he WANTS to be in office.

Monroe · Post by **Monroe** » Fri Sep 21, 2007 8:13 am

That's not always true.

Granitehewer · Post by **Granitehewer** » Fri Sep 21, 2007 9:09 am

not always false either....lol